I’ve had a fantastic adventure, met some gorgeous people who I hope to stay in touch with. I definitely intend to and want to come back in about a years time.
I didn’t spend the last few of days idly. I had two glorious days with Rajkumar and Kriti exploring the jungle behind their house. On one of the walks we went with Romi (Juliette having homework didn’t come) and it took about five hours. I think the highlight was watching Romi climb a tree for the first time in his life, then not being able to stop him from shinning up any old Rhododendron tree. His father is a veritable Langur himself.


The next trip was to an area neither Kriti or Rajkumar had been. There was a very picturesque ridge and we decided to explore it. It was hard going and then we met two boys half way up, looking a bit forlorn. They were 9 and 8 years and had missed school, one had got up too late and the other had lost his lunch money, they went to different schools and they were nervous about returning home. We all walked up the steep trails together and eventually reached the boys homes. I don’t know if they were scolded. I suspect Rajkumar put in a good word for them because the parents let them spend the rest of the day guiding us. I cannot imagine this happening in the UK, can you? Both boys relieved, became really chatty and even tried out their English. The boys were small and thin, the 9 year old being smaller than the younger boy, I thought he looked about six years old. Apparently they didn’t speak properly either according to Kriti, I couldn’t understand them at all. Anyway they knew the hill like the back of their hand and were running everywhere, sure footed.
We stopped at a small hotel high on the ridge for lunch, and the boys didn’t know what they wanted to eat so, Rajkumar ordered Momo’s for them. Well, I cannot tell you how wonderful it was to see these boys eating, they looked positively ecstatic with every mouthful and polished off the lot.

We had spectacular views of the whole of Kathmandhu valley and it’s not hard to imagine it was once a huge lake

The boys took us to a small temple. It’s the first time I’ve seen one of these water tanks clean enough to have fish in it!





It was a lovely day, but we had to say goodbye to the boys so they could go home, I gave them a few rupees each for guiding us, not much, sufficient to buy enough sweets to make themselves sick if they chose to. I wonder if they will remember the day total strangers walked with them and took them for lunch? Maybe the rest for of their lives!
As we got close to home disaster struck, Kriti tripped down a steep step and sprained her ankle. Leaning heavily on Rajkumar she manage to limp the short distance home. I could see it was very painful, she only made it half way up stairs before laying on the landing sofa. We got her foot elevated and went to find some ice. I wandered into town for Ibuprofen and a bandage. Juliette has a good grasp of first aid as do I. What I have noticed though is a complete lack of knowledge around medicines and yet they are so cheap here. I explained that Ibuprofen is anti inflammatory as well as a pain killer. I checked Kriti could take it first and once it started to work she fell asleep.
Later we all had a cosy evening, the family sat with Kriti on the sofa, eating and telling jokes, well the jokes were mostly from Romi (Christmas Cracker style) Hahahaha.
Also in the final days, I took a trip into Kathmandhu to say goodbye to Urmila my tutor and Ramesh a waiter in the hotel I had stayed in.
Then I met up with Rajendra, Shova and one of their daughters, Retsha in Kirtipur and spent a very pleasant afternoon with them. Both Shova and Retsha cooked traditional Newari food in their little kitchen/bedroom.

To my surprise Shova crocheted me a little purse, I’ve never seen anyone work so quickly.
I could so easily have missed seeing them because they had been away to friends for a few days. They kindly made sure I got the right bus back to Kriti’s and the journey that would cost me about £10 by taxi cost me 30p. Mind you it was overcrowded and I had a man hanging over me most of the way, Hey ho!
So unless something utterly remarkable happens, this my last blog from Nepal. I have shopping to do, which is my least favourite thing.
This is a country of contrasts. I have a love hate relationship with it. There is so much to love and admire but, there is equally a lot that needs fixing. For all our of gripes about how the UK and various establishments are run, we are extremely lucky to have what we have.
I’m now looking forward to home and seeing my family and friends. I also quite fancy a cheddar cheese and salad sandwich and an English cup of tea (that’s a contradiction I know). I’m looking forward to being able to drink water from the tap, sing in the shower without worrying that I swallowed some water. I want to be able to put rubbish in a bin and to walk where it is not so dusty that you always need a mask. And finally want to see my cat!
Thank you for your company on my travels and I hope to see you soon.
Thank you so much for sharing your trip Debbie. I have learnt so much about the country I’ve never been to and in some ways it’s felt like I was beside you some of the time. Enjoy that sandwich and a cup of tea!
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It’s been exactly like that for me too! It’s always lovely to share a journey with friends. I didn’t realise it could be done without a physical presence but it can it seems. See you soon x
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Hi Debbie
Well we have certainly enjoyed our visit to Nepal with you, through the often difficult climbs, to the hidden gems. Your guides and people who you have made life long friends with are brilliant. Like you we see how people live and don’t have the luxuries we have here but seem much happier than most here. Chris’s father has a saying “ more wants much and much wants more ” meaning some people are never satisfied with what they have. When you see what is happening world wide we all ought to be grateful to waking up each morning and feel blessed that we do.
Lol the boys made me laugh…..skipping off school with those excuses…still I think they had a better day guiding you…fishing and a huge meal, they’ll sleep well tonight 😂💕. I hope that Keith’s foot heals quickly a sprain can take forever…..still the Ibuprofen should work its magic along with a cold bandage and your ice!🙏 . Shove’s knitting technique is phenomenal to watch …if only we had the energy to knit that fast or in fact knit at all….although it looks like a crochet needle….it’s amazing she doesn’t even need a pattern to work from…amazing 🙌
We have looked forward to travelling with you and not been disappointed….getting into your bath/shower without the dust and mashing for the goats ( don’t get any ideas! ) will be a relief and your own bed lol! Never take for granted your bed…..I am always grateful for mine as you well know 😂.
Safe journeys back…..I would tell you not to cry but I think you’ll find that impossible…you have had an amazing trip and we have been fortunate that you have taken the time to share it with us. We look forward to hearing from you when you have recovered from your trip home
Much love and many thanks
Linda xxx💖🌺🌺🌺
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Thanks Linda, I won’t underestimate my bed, Trish gave me a heated blanket and I’ve missed that a lot! However I have discovered something…..silk sleeping bag liners, never go to bed without one, even if you don’t get in it, they always feel warm.
I have enjoyed sharing with you, you always make me laugh. See you soon.
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Lol this iPad changed Kriti’s name to Keith 🤦♀️ what’s going on mmm love silk,nice and soft on your skin……however as I am NEVER sleeping in one again I’ll leave that one with you…two experiences was traumatic enough, the common factor was YOU !😂😂😂🤷♀️💖🌹
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Hahahaha, clearly a bit rough on you, you delicate flower! 🤣
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What a wonderful end to an awesome journey, until the next one of course! Safe journey home and look forward to seeing you once you have recovered 🤗
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🤷♀️🤣🤣🤣love you too !
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